veerjee i know how u feel, sometimes the world can be STUPID -- but people are ignorant and it's their own loss if they don't have sikhi in their lives
in reality, all that matters is whether or not guru jee is happy with us, and if we keep our hair and live our lives according to him, he is happy with us... you just need to ask him for your love and he'll give you plenty, moer than u could possibly need
