Yes Frany, this is a time of year which at times adds to our dilemma with all the added pressure of parties, nights out etc.
What I tend to do at this time of the year is to double up on my meetings and as you say, if I feel uncomfortable in a situation..... I remove myself, call a member of the fellowship for a blether and I usually feel better.
Thanks for posting this and have a great happy and sober festive period