I see your site just fine, flash and all. And your index.html seems to be right where it is supposed to be. Is it possible that your domain is so new that your ISP hasn't been let in on the secret yet? Or perhaps you just found the solution and fixed it?
It's more a combination of me diddling around with everything and figuring out nothing.
Frustrated, I just began copying and pasting everything in all the folders I could. Have no idea what was the solution, but you are correct. I now have flash and a complete page, but it took forever (>2 days) to get something up and going.